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How to help your child with maths, even if maths was never your thing

Ten practical, low-stress ways parents can help children enjoy and improve at maths: short daily practice, games, talking through methods, fixing gaps, and free tools to use at home. Works for primary and middle school.

Updated ยท 4 min read ยท By the Ashkam team

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Many parents feel nervous about helping with maths, especially if they found it hard themselves. The good news: you do not need to be a maths expert. Children do better when maths feels safe, regular and curious. Here are ten practical things that help.

1. Keep it short and regular

Five to ten minutes a day works better than a long weekly session. Tag it onto a routine, like after snacks or before bedtime. Our free mental maths practice is built for exactly this: ten questions, instant feedback and a personal best to beat. For a short browser game, try Times Table Race or Maths Memory Match; keep it untimed if a child finds the race stressful.

2. Say that mistakes are useful

How you talk about maths matters. Avoid "I was bad at maths too." Try "That's a tricky one. Let's work it out." When your child gets something wrong, ask them how they got their answer. The mistake often shows exactly what to practise.

3. Ask "how did you get that?"

Asking a child to explain their thinking builds understanding and shows you where they are stuck. You do not need to know the answer to ask the question. Even "show me on paper" helps.

4. Play maths games

Games make practice feel like play. Card games, dice games, board games and puzzles all build number sense. Online, try the 24 game, the times tables trainer or our free maths games: Fraction Pizza makes parts visible, while Money Counter practises totals and change. A Rubik's Cube is another way to explore logic and patience.

5. Make tables and number facts automatic

Fast recall of tables, number bonds and squares frees the brain to think about harder problems. Practise little and often, say the facts aloud, and use patterns. Our guide to mental maths tricks and times tables has helpful shortcuts.

6. Connect maths to real life

Cook together and double a recipe. Compare prices and work out discounts. Work out the change at the shop, or how long a journey will take. Use the percentage calculator to check a sale price together. Real examples show why maths matters.

7. Find and fix gaps early

Maths builds on itself. If fractions are shaky, decimals and percentages will be too. If a topic keeps going wrong, go back to the step before it. Short, targeted practice on a weak spot beats lots of random homework.

8. Use pictures and objects

Many children understand an idea once they can see it. Draw bar models, use coins or blocks for place value, fold paper into fractions, and use a number line. Visual explanations make abstract ideas concrete.

9. Keep homework calm

Create a quiet spot, take breaks, and stay nearby without taking over. If frustration rises, stop and come back later. Do not do the work for your child, but do help them break a problem into smaller steps.

10. Get extra help when it is needed

If your child is stressed, avoiding maths or falling behind, extra support can help. A good teacher starts from what the child already understands and rebuilds confidence. Our fun maths classes for kids use puzzles, games and visual explanations, and a parent or guardian can ask about age and level.

What to avoid

  • Comparing your child with others.
  • Timed pressure for a child who is anxious about maths. Start untimed.
  • Only praising right answers. Praise effort and good thinking too.

Common questions

How much maths practice should a child do at home?

Short and regular beats long and occasional. Five to fifteen minutes a day is plenty for most primary-age children, plus homework.

My child hates maths. What can I do?

Find out why. Is it fear of being wrong, boredom, or a gap in understanding? Games, puzzles and real-life maths can rebuild interest, and extra support can help if a gap is the cause.

Should I teach the method the way I learned it?

Be careful. Schools often teach methods differently from how parents learned. Ask your child to show you their school method, and support that, or check with the teacher.

Are calculators bad for learning maths?

Not in themselves. They are useful for checking answers and for harder topics, but children still need to learn number facts and methods first. Use calculators that show their working, like our fraction calculator.

When should I get a tutor?

If your child is falling behind, losing confidence, or you cannot help because the topic has moved beyond you, extra support may help. Ask about the level first, and look for someone who explains clearly and is patient.

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This guide is general information. For exams, follow your school, teacher and official exam board, and use your own judgement about what suits your child.

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